Marion Julia Burman, as she was christened, was born in London just before WW2, the second of three children of Eric and Iris. The family moved from Shooters Hill to Bexhill-on-Sea in 1949 shortly after the war, having purchased Southlands Court, previously a school requisitioned by the war office, which they turned into a hotel. After attending local schools, completing her education at Bexhill Grammar School for Girls, she went to work for the Admiralty Hydrographers Office at Herstmonceux Castle where she met her future husband Robert (Bob) Airlie. They were married at St Peter’s (Bexhill Old Town) on 14th June 1958. Bob was both a civil and water engineer, working for what was then the Ministry of Public Buildings and Works (MPBW), whilst Julia focussed her attention on the home and family.
Married life commenced in Pinner, where Iain was born, with a move soon after to Plymouth, where Heather was born. Family life involved several moves following Bob around the country from Kent to Scotland and then Wiltshire. While Bob worked at Faslane (the Clyde Submarine Base), the family lived in Helensburgh where Julia volunteered with St Andrew’s First Aid and helped at the local swimming club, as Iain and Heather learnt to swim. This was the start of Julia’s involvement with swimming, and the Amateur Swimming Association, a hobby that became a passion and at times, almost a full time role until 2019.
From Faslane, Bob was posted to Bath and the family took up village life near Corsham, Wiltshire, where the Airlies were one of the founding families of Corsham ASC, which was to become a key part of Julia’s life for many years. Beginning teaching swimming and a key member of the pool-side team, Julia developed her interests, skills and qualifications as a timekeeper, turn judge, style judge and eventually referee to her swimming portfolio. Over the years she served as Corsham club coach, coached at Millfield School and the University of Bath, became an international referee, and served terms as president of Wiltshire ASA in 1987 and the ASA Southwest Region in 2011. Julia was still helping referee at international galas around the UK in 2019. She was equally proud of the success of her club swimmers exceeding their expectations as she was of her Olympic swimmers.
Julia’s endurance of the inevitable mobility expected of the MOD while Bob was working stood her in good stead for another chapter in her life when her three grandsons, became successful junior sailors, with regular visits to Weymouth needed for training. Bob & Julia provided the use of their garage in Wiltshire for storing a laden triple boat trailer, and Julia had a towbar fitted to her car to help transport boats and sailors to events. Many of the Scottish GBR Optimist Squad sailors had the occasional overnight stop at Corsham en route to training or competition. Sometimes Julia drove her car and boat trailer to the airport, meeting the arriving sailors and handing her car over for the weekend, returning home using her bus pass. The return trip was similar- she would take the bus to the airport and collect the car and trailer whilst the sailors and driver returned to Scotland.
When Julia took over her old family home in Bexhill, and the sailing took on an international flavour, many junior sailors enjoyed the hospitality of the Bexhill house on the way to European events: it was a handy stopping off point between Weymouth and the Dover ferries!
When Bob died, Julia’s adventures took a new turn when she had a narrow boat built in 2010. This enabled her to split her time between Bexhill and Wiltshire providing her accommodation whilst supporting swimming events in Corsham and the region. Julia enjoyed river/canal life, changing her location on the canal every fortnight, negotiating the locks and engaging with fellow boaters along the way.
At 80 she was still happily driving her mini the length and breadth of the UK, refereeing at swimming events and visiting family. After a visit to China in 2019 she collapsed on return to Gatwick and was taken to Redhill Hospital where cancer was diagnosed. A course of chemotherapy was tried with limited success, but a follow-up course did not have the desired effect.
Her comment on waking up in Redhill after the Gatwick incident summed up her attitude: “I’ve had a good innings”. Mother to Iain and Heather, Grandmother to Ewan, Drew and Callum, she will be missed by the many people whose lives she has touched.